When I got the news, I pushed the unimportant things aside. As much as I've enjoyed blogging, it's just seemed like such a distraction. As I was poking around on Facebook last night, a friend contemplated giving up blogging entirely. She felt like she just didn't have anything to say. I realized as I followed the conversation, that its not that we don't have anything to say. It's just, does anybody want to hear it? This made me realize (reaffirm) that ultimately, this is a tool for me, about me.
I've been going through the process. When you find a job that you love to do, with people you love to work with, it's hard to let go. Ultimately, though, money rules, and money has no emotion. No sensitivity.
Why is that the job you want the least is the one that pursues you the hardest? LOL... I interviewed at some big name companies. I have to sit there and answer questions for people that, while appropriate, really have no bearing on my ability to do the job. I often find myself wondering why I do not have this person's or that person's job. I am more skilled and knowledgeable then they are, yet I have to sit here, acting like I am enthusiastic and aggressive for every opportunity out there under the sun, no matter how mundane it really is.
More often than not, the company that pursues me hardest wins. I'm just easy like that. I like to be wanted, because I give so much in return. I fully realize that this might not be the best strategy, but its been working out OK so far.
I'm starting a ninety day contract on Monday, and I'm hoping this will hold me over, allow me to take a deep breath, and find a company that I really like and want to work for, for a long time.
My family is counting on me. Once more into the breach...
Wes
25 comments:
Good to hear you found something at least for the short-term. Keep up the hard work. You are a survivor, so in the end you will win that perfect job.
Glad you've found something for the next little while anyway! I'm hoping something great comes along for you soon!
You family does no question that you totally know what you are doing. Your an IRONMAN... what more does anyone need to know.
It is one step closer to finding that right job Wes, take those 90 days and keep persuing the perfect venue for you, Dee Dee and the kids.
Trust in yourself, the way we trust in you....
Keep looking those 90 days will go fast as you well know... u will find it!
Tough times, Wes. Hang in there.
Wes,
I'm not sure if you knew that Eric and I went through the summer mostly unemployed. As in, Eric, the primary breadwinner, was out of work for six months. Me, I was technically out of work - had some limited part time advising for the summer and got back to part time teaching this fall. So, the point is, we feel ya! I'm glad you found something to give you a breather, and hope that you will find something you love. It's worked out well for both of us - both ending up with jobs we are loving as much as, or more than our old ones. Here's hoping the same for you!
Excellent post, Wes. Good thoughts, all.
And, yeah, your family needs you. You play the game and find the bridge to pay the bills. 90 days may be a good bridge... take some short-term pressure off and let you find something you can more deeply embrace.
Nicely done... happy for you!
hard times.... ((((HUGS))))
Good luck on the new job. I know you'll give it your all. And, who knows. . . this may be the perfect fit????? If not, have a good 90 days!
You are wonderful, inspiring, & hard working man! Patience & Prayers that this next phase is a smooth one.
I lurve me some Weslicious & Dee Deelicious!
I, too, am glad to hear that you have found something for the short-term. Your family has faith in you. Trust in yourself and you will prevail... You are an Ironman! :D
Glad you found a stop gap...breathing space is important!
This was a great post and we can all benefit from your thoughts. Hope all goes well!! Hope Dee Dee had a great b-day!
-marn
I don't envy your situation, but I'm glad to see that you are handling it with grace. All the best, Wes.
Hope that the short term contract allows yout he time and space to find what's right for you!
Glad you've got a short-term fix. Hope something great - and more long-term - comes along soon.
Yes and you will be great at it. Sometimes it is hard to find that line between what you love and who you love (and what needs to be done for them). I totally understand. I hate my work but I love my family. It's just what needs to be done....as long as we don't let it totally eat our soul.
Just be happy that you have the talent and skill that others are looking for. Just remember...you could be me, full of potential but no skill!
Glad you found something, even if it is for a short period of time. I hope it all goes well!
Cheering you on for the next 90 days!
Congrats Wes and as normal - thanks for sharing your thoughts!
Good luck Monday and for the next 90 days! :o)
Hey Wes, hope the next 90 days results you a job you can feel really good about! I am with you on blogging, in the end it is for me. The memories captured over the last 5 years are priceless!
I would miss you if you stopped blogging. I am glad you are sticking around :)
You just took some thoughts right out of my head and put them here. I am really struggling with some of the same stuff. Best wishes to you.
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